Young Man Faces Heartbreak After More Than a Year of Dating
Born in 1996, the young man, known as A, has been in a relationship for over a year with a girl born in 2000. He noted that both of them look quite modern and complement each other perfectly. Every time they went out together, she would dress elegantly yet uniquely. This impression made him “fall in love” when witnessing her room filled with many personal items.
The young man shared that when they first met, every time they went out together, the girl often seemed to be quite nervous. After being together for more than a year, they finally entered a more intimate phase. The cozy atmosphere of the small room, coupled with her sweet fragrance, made him feel enchanted. At that time, she explained that her busy schedule often left little room for relaxation.
However, he did not deny that this lifestyle was not sustainable. It was clear that his girlfriend had her own off days, but anytime he came over, he often encountered a tense atmosphere. After a little disagreement with her, he suggested that perhaps she was too reserved. Eventually, the situation escalated, and after expressing his frustrations, he was met with a “sharp rebuttal”: He was too meticulous.
About His Beautiful Girlfriend
Speaking about his beautiful girlfriend, the young man expressed: “We’ve known each other for nearly five years, yet I suddenly found myself overwhelmed by the burden of her lifestyle. On one hand, I want to settle down; on the other hand, I still feel uncertain. However, I believe that if we got married, I would probably end up being a housekeeper.”
As I approach 30, I want a serious relationship that leads to marriage, so we can build a life together. Yet, I can’t help but think that if we were to marry, I’d have to take on more responsibilities, and it would make me feel like I have to clean up someone else’s mess.”
In the comments section, many netizens chimed in with their thoughts. In reality, many posts have brought to light the burdens of living with certain personalities, especially those of popular girls who attract attention. Given the circumstances, many viewers believe that the young man should reconsider continuing this relationship, as the lifestyle they share may be hard to change. If it doesn’t bring joy, then dragging it out might just harm both parties.
In response to the opinions of others, the young man stated: “Thank you everyone; I have read many comments. I realize that it’s challenging, but I still want to address this topic with my girlfriend. I belong to a type of person who values feelings, so I want to give us a chance to change. If there’s no change, I will have to make some decisions later. Thank you to everyone, wishing you all a happy day.”
